Liana - Holistic Intimacy Coach
Liana - Holistic Intimacy Coach
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Make your goal or dream project happen! ✨💯
If you seek motivation or coaching support for a long term goal (personal project, business, health), Liana is opening up individual coaching sessions.
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If you seek motivation to start your soul project, reach Liana via email.
contact @ liana buzea . com
Find out if you are a match for individual coaching sessions.
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Find Liana's resources here:
linktr.ee/lianabuzea
Good luck with your big goal or project!
About Liana
- her full birth name is Andreea-Liana, but she goes by Liana
- she's founded two eco-social movements in her home country Romania (one on waste cleanup, the second on afforestation), though nowadays she's no longer publicly associated with any of them (two “Steve Jobs-lik...
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Видео

Intimacy sucks? Listen to this! ✨
Просмотров 296Месяц назад
Welcome to Liana' intimacy coaching! This channel was built to bring grounded, slow and deeper perspectives on intimacy. And it is designed to support you in your own growth path. TIMESTAMPS: 01:00 The need to have "it" 05:14 Who to have "it" with? 12:06 Until you meet your person 17:39 Recap JOIN LIANA's DAILY PRACTICES: www.patreon.com/LianaIntimacyCoach/ FIND MORE RESOURCES HERE: linktr.ee/l...
[Personal sharing] I've been working on this for two years! ✨
Просмотров 63Месяц назад
This is an update for Liana's video community. May you get motivated to work on your dream too! If you seek motivation to start your soul project, reach Liana via email. contact @ liana buzea . com Find out if you are a match for individual coaching sessions. Find Liana's resources here: linktr.ee/lianabuzea About Liana - her full birth name is Andreea-Liana, but she goes by Liana - she's found...
I was called "judgmental" for questioning the validity of an Instagram post
Просмотров 144Месяц назад
When it comes to mass reach pages, influencers and accounts, many go the route of oversimplification, taking information out of context or presenting exaggerated takes. Liana shares her story of questioning the authenticity of one such post. THE VIDEOS MENTIONED: Avoid date rape: ruclips.net/video/j2x6eyouZ5w/видео.html Orgasms and belly fat loss: ruclips.net/video/q8feYdTjfYM/видео.html JOIN L...
Intimacy Coach reacts to comments on date rape
Просмотров 64Месяц назад
On May 21st, in Romania, an accused rape came to the attention of the Romanian public. Since a shadow was cast on sexual education also, Liana analyzed the case and pointed out how such situations could be prevented. The original vlog is here: ruclips.net/video/j2x6eyouZ5w/видео.html Today, she reads and reacts to seven comments from that vlog. TIMESTAMPS: 01:08 "What if no doesn't mean no?" 04...
[POV]: What I do when missing someone I haven't yet met 💔
Просмотров 882 месяца назад
This is a personal sharing about a topic that Liana is very familiar with. Many single people on the planet most likely feel the same. Join Liana's daily practice community: www.patreon.com/LianaIntimacyCoach ABOUT LIANA: - her full birth name is Andreea-Liana, but she goes by Liana - she's founded two eco-social movements in her home country (cleanup and afforestation), though nowadays she's n...
Coaching reaction: how to avoid "date rape"
Просмотров 1,5 тыс.2 месяца назад
On May 21st, in Romania, the case of rape accused by the journalist Adina Florea came to the attention of the Romanian public. A day later, the accusations of two other women against the same person appeared in the press as well. The accused man is Romanian journalist Răzvan Băltărețu, involved in a series of education and development projects in sexuality. Since a shadow is cast on the actions...
Reacție de coaching: cum previi un viol în relația intimă?
Просмотров 602 месяца назад
În data de 21 mai a ieșit în atenția publicului din România cazul de viol acuzat de către jurnalista Adina Florea. La o zi după, au apărut în presă acuzele a altor două femei la adresa aceleași persoane. Bărbatul acuzat este jurnalistul Răzvan Băltărețu, implicat într-o serie de proiecte de educație și dezvoltare în sexualitate. Fiindcă este adusă o umbră asupra demersurilor în care acest om a ...
Intimacy Coach's VISCERAL reactions to Ashley Madison documentary
Просмотров 2122 месяца назад
Liana shares the visceral reactions she had while watching the 3-part documentary "Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies & Scandal" that exposed the rise and massive data leak of the infamous dating app that targeted married people looking for someone 'on the side.' TIMESTAMPS: 02:30 Reaction 1: Is it more profitable to marry or to cheat? 03:45 Reaction 2: I hope they got something out of it. 04:45 Reactio...
Intimacy Coach reacts to a sexpionage podcast and its main subject 💥
Просмотров 1522 месяца назад
In this vlog, Liana shares her judgements (owned as such with the initial disclaimer) on the way sexpionage is presented and the main subject is recognized by several institutions, one of which is the Kinsey Institute. In Liana's view, the main subject of this podcast should be helped to heal absolutely! What she also believes is this woman shouldn't be a life or sexuality coach before that hea...
How somatic practices support beautiful intimacy
Просмотров 1033 месяца назад
Liana responds to a question about the connection between breathwork, a prayer and intimacy. The practice video that got this reaction: ruclips.net/video/IZogvTOr7L4/видео.html/ JOIN LIANA'S DAILY PRACTICES: www.patreon.com/LianaIntimacyCoach ABOUT LIANA: - her full birth name is Andreea-Liana, but she goes by Liana - she's founded two eco-social movements in her home country (cleanup and affor...
Ho'oponopono prayer with breathwork
Просмотров 1143 месяца назад
Join along this practice to possibly shift your internal states. It can help you improve your mood temporarily. You can do fewer prayers every day. TIMESTAMPS: 00:44 The safety instructions 02:03 Briefly about Ho'oponopono 3:48 The practice begins JOIN LIANA'S DAILY PRACTICES: www.patreon.com/LianaIntimacyCoach ABOUT LIANA: - her full birth name is Andreea-Liana, but she goes by Liana - she's f...
Intimacy Coach responds to a straight woman's "pickle"
Просмотров 1473 месяца назад
Intimacy Coach responds to a straight woman's "pickle"
Do we admire famous people a bit too much?
Просмотров 813 месяца назад
Do we admire famous people a bit too much?
Positive takeaways from the Andrew Huberman "shebang"
Просмотров 1863 месяца назад
Positive takeaways from the Andrew Huberman "shebang"
American Culture, Only Fans, Botox, YouTuber community and Self-love 👌🏻✨
Просмотров 964 месяца назад
American Culture, Only Fans, Botox, RUclipsr community and Self-love 👌🏻✨
For Lovers' Life, not day!
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For Lovers' Life, not day!
Unless you transform, non-western women won't love you either. 💔
Просмотров 1 тыс.6 месяцев назад
Unless you transform, non-western women won't love you either. 💔
Intimacy Coach on 'The Wall' and Briffault's Law
Просмотров 3586 месяцев назад
Intimacy Coach on 'The Wall' and Briffault's Law
Intimacy coach answers 12 comments: "Women don't love men!" 💔
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.6 месяцев назад
Intimacy coach answers 12 comments: "Women don't love men!" 💔
Intimacy coach answers one man's question: do women even love men? 💔
Просмотров 2,5 тыс.7 месяцев назад
Intimacy coach answers one man's question: do women even love men? 💔
Bring back HOPE
Просмотров 938 месяцев назад
Bring back HOPE
Women should know this about their fertility / with @femeiafertila
Просмотров 1358 месяцев назад
Women should know this about their fertility / with @femeiafertila
Women after 40 face this 💥
Просмотров 2358 месяцев назад
Women after 40 face this 💥
Intimacy Coach reacts to a wife's "secret"
Просмотров 3499 месяцев назад
Intimacy Coach reacts to a wife's "secret"
3 ingredients for personal magnetism✨
Просмотров 1919 месяцев назад
3 ingredients for personal magnetism✨
'Spooky' places for a party of two ✨
Просмотров 1429 месяцев назад
'Spooky' places for a party of two ✨
3 ways to self-support in times of suffering 💖
Просмотров 2269 месяцев назад
3 ways to self-support in times of suffering 💖
Outrageous stories: marketing & intimacy coaching 🤯💥
Просмотров 1289 месяцев назад
Outrageous stories: marketing & intimacy coaching 🤯💥
A woman's relationship to her breasts
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A woman's relationship to her breasts

Комментарии

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi 4 дня назад

    Very inciteful.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea 4 дня назад

      @@Davlavi Thank you! May I ask you, to make sure I get it: do you mean "inciteful" or "insightful"? You've used the first word a few times but I kept thinking about the second one. Both are correct, yet I kept going to the second one so I thought I'd check in. ✌🏻🤗

    • @Davlavi
      @Davlavi 2 дня назад

      @@LianaBuzea sure must have done it to quick to notice.

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi 5 дней назад

    Inciteful and the need for healing is as great as ever.

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi 5 дней назад

    Very nice thanks for sharing.

  • @user-oe3yk9gb4h
    @user-oe3yk9gb4h 9 дней назад

    Good Looking Slim Biceps ❤ Love to Armwrestle Your Gorgeous Muscles Liana 👍👍😉

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi 11 дней назад

    Ya, communication for people can be confusing at the best of times.

  • @Familycrump
    @Familycrump 15 дней назад

    Wow. I feel so in tune. You are powerful Liana.

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi 24 дня назад

    Interesting to consider.

  • @LianaBuzea
    @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

    This is the vlog mentioned at 05:50: ruclips.net/video/PlPsw8TwPR8/видео.html

  • @adelatalpes
    @adelatalpes Месяц назад

    Liana, te felicit pentru curaj și perseverență, pentru faptul că nu ai renunțat la visul tău. îți doresc din toată inima să ai succes cu această carte și abia aștept s-o citesc. Cred că va fi ceva unic, echilibrat și curajos, așa ca tine. Pentru mine visul a fost să-mi câștig existența din fori presate și am reușit. În adolescență am avut pentru scurtă vreme un gând (e prea mult să-i spun vis) să scriu o carte, o combinație de autobiografică și fantasy, dar fiindcă imaginea mă pasionează mai mult decât cuvintele, am ajuns să creez un fel de povești video autobiografice, ceea ce pentru mine reprezintă o materializare a acelui gând din adolescență. Îți urez multă inspirație și spor în finalizarea cărții! Pot doar să-mi imaginez ce provocare mare este.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      Iti multumesc tare tare mult, Adela! Felicitari pentru visul tau implinit! Nu stiu cum li se va parea oamenilor toata povestea, am emotii acolo bine de tot, dar mai am cativa pasi pana sa ajunga la public, de citit. Dar vine si momentul ala sigur! :) P.S.: cand mai vii prin Bucuresti, mi-ar placea sa ne vedem!

  • @jm9832
    @jm9832 Месяц назад

    that sucks that you''re shadowbanned, no one is safe these days

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      It does. But it isn't just that. I don't go for clickbait. And I also rarely hit popular topics.... That's because I just don't think in terms of popularity. So there are also these reasons. 🙏🏻

  • @darkintheblood
    @darkintheblood Месяц назад

    What I've noticed over the last five years especially, a lot of posts are created to spark an emotional reaction for more likes and shares even if it's untrue just for attention to their page. Ppl like yourself that is clear and grounded get missed between all the hoohar. You're the kind of ppl I look for. What I do if I see a post like what you describe I use it as inspiration to post on my page. I don't debate anyone on social media but I can educate ppl from my view point on my pages. I just find social media so toxic for even healthy debate, ppl will hate for no reason and life is so much more than dealing with ppl I'll never know or meet on social media. Will always support you Liana, rly appreciate you and your work.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      Yes, lesson learned! I'll do my thing here and who wants to listen to more in-depth looks at what actually is involved in a beautiful intimate experience, is welcome here. ✌🏻✨

  • @DebraWilderMeditation
    @DebraWilderMeditation Месяц назад

    There is some disturbing comments here. The backwards comments about if a guy buys us dinner we must have sex with them wow.

  • @ashiquzzaman666
    @ashiquzzaman666 Месяц назад

    Liana, your discussion on the impacts of trauma beyond just intimacy was eye-opening. Your perspective on consent and safety is much needed. Just sent you a DM on Instagram! Thanks for tackling such important topics with wisdom and care.

  • @AlexandraCeana-ey7cd
    @AlexandraCeana-ey7cd Месяц назад

    De ce este omul asta liber? Nu aratat cu degetul...

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      Hei! Pai, ca sa raspund tehnic, tot cazul asta nu a mers niciodata in instanta. Deci in acest moment nu are cum sa fie privat de libertate. Si, chiar si daca era dus in instanta, numai cu un verdict de vinovat si cu o sentinta de executare a X ani in inchisoare ar putea asigura ca cineva ajunge la inchisoare. Asa cum Adina a spus in declaratiile ei, cand ea avea 20 de ani, abia daca o crezuse si mama ei ca fusese violata... n-a crezut in nici un moment ca cineva de la politie avea sa o creada. Nici nu cred ca atunci a fost cineva in jurul ei care s-o incurajeze sa mearga la politie cu intamplarea ei. Apoi, nici celelalte doua femei, din articolele ulterioare, n-au mers la politie. Pot doar sa presupun ca din aceleasi motive: n-au crezut ca cineva avea sa le creada, ca acele cazuri ar fi fost luate in serios si trecute prin procedurile legale cu tot respectul cuvenit fiecarei parti implicate. Dilemele astea (sa merg sau sa nu merg sa raportez un abuz sexual) exista si in comunitatile de KINK si BDSM. Desi exista constientizare intre ei despre ce inseamna consimtamant si abuz, uneori lucrurile pot lua o turnura negativa (suntem oameni, sunt atatea necunoscute si factori perturbatori - nu doar alcoolul sau ignoranta / lipsa educatiei sexuale, cum reies din cazul discutat in vlogul acesta). Ei, sa reclami la politie un caz de abuz in cadrul unui cuplu care practica BDSM si sa fie luat in serios partea de abuz... este inca peste nivelul de intelegere al societatii noastre. Autoritatile statului nostru sunt alcatuite tot din oameni din societatea noastra.

  • @bogdanbogdan3462
    @bogdanbogdan3462 Месяц назад

    I guess innocent until proven guilty does not apply anymore when it comes to men accused by women.. Not saying the guy is innocent, but the crowd, THE CROWD, is thirsty and they require someone to punish, even if a judge hasn't decided anything yet. If we go that route, it is so so easy to see how some malevolent women can take advantage of this and just accuse guys that want to harm, since, apparently, society does not need a judge anymore, to decide who's guilty of what

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      As I've shared in the original video: I believe this woman because I went through something similar in 2014. Nobody around me believed me at the time. I didn't press charges as in my case the emotional and psychological component was more prevalent and the police didn't know how to handle that. Not even today do they know. As for the crowd... the only thing I disagree with is the total shunning of this guy from the press. Okay, don't get him to cover sexuality related stuff. But not work at all as a journalist... That's not okay either. He didn't use his work as a journalist in those interactions with women, did he? It was before he was employed as a journalist. Those situations also weren't leveraged for him to get the job. What I'm saying is get him to pay (moral damages, medical or therapy bills), put a caution out there for women if they want to interact with this guy, but don't take his entire ability to work away from him. That's not okay either. That will not bring any positive results in the long run. There's a very high chance he won't change anything for the better if he's shunned altogether.

    • @bogdanbogdan3462
      @bogdanbogdan3462 Месяц назад

      @@LianaBuzea In my humble opinion, it is almost an abuse from the woman (Adina) too. Why just come out at a seemingly random date in the future, maybe not so random, - maybe even when it is convenient, we don't know. She could have done something a week prior to that, a month, a year...it seems convenient to keep an "ace" in the sleeve like that and maybe just use it when "triggered". Not cool. But I agree it is a wise thing to call out men who sexually abuse women. Just not like Adina did. PS One thing is really really weird in this story: she slept with him out of her own free will, even after the alleged rape. Can comprehend that at all.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      I do believe when you write you don't comprehend. You genuinely do not. Trauma can get triggered in many ways. In her case it was seeing her rapist being awarded on stage for sexual education projects. I've even mentioned this in the videos. Trauma is abigcharge on one's nervous system. Even with therapy, some people can't unload that. Him with a prizeon stage was the final drop that made her have that emotional discharge. Perhaps get more information about trauma and retriggering trauma. If you haven't lived it, at least get info about it before accusing a victim of rape that she's evil. This will take you much further in any life situation. Many women (I included) have been through sexual abuse by men they knew and were intimate with. Yor disbelief in these sad life stories and how they affect a person ovee the years might cause you one day to lose connection with a special woman in your life. If what I shared in these videos here, and time in comments, doesn't land,clearly I'm not the best person to reach you with this topic. 🙏🏻

  • @winstonwilson9172
    @winstonwilson9172 Месяц назад

    Well Here's the Thing Liana Women Also Can Have And Alot Do Have A Hateful Attitudes And Bad Option Of Men Also Now Days That Is Why A lot Of Men Have Gone And Will Be Going Migtow In The Future

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      It's really tough to follow your point with major caps at every word and no punctuation. What's up with that? I wish the best to everyone seeking love wherever on the planet. Really. I am pointing out that the desired marriage exodus of men from Anglo Saxon worlds isn't without obstacle. And one needs to work out their sh*t (living in an unfriendly culture can mess one up) or they may get disappointed in the place of destination.

  • @rubypanterra.
    @rubypanterra. Месяц назад

    Great video. Healing to all of us in need.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      Happy to hear it! I send love and light to you! 💖🙏🏻

  • @GokulGokuldas-tj1wx
    @GokulGokuldas-tj1wx Месяц назад

    Love it😊

  • @adventeu775
    @adventeu775 Месяц назад

    How can I find women who want smaller? I am 5 inches and feel like shit.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      I read your comment. While I don't have an answer, (no more than I'd have an answer for a man seeking a certain size of vagina), I can think a bit around it. Meaning who would seek this, where would they seek it. This isn't a topic we discuss in society. We discuss lingerie, breasts or biceps, glutes, traveling to luxury locations, positions, toys (for women), but the matching of genitalia sizes we just don't discuss it. As a collective.

    • @adventeu775
      @adventeu775 Месяц назад

      @@LianaBuzea I wonder are women also embarrassed to say they want a smaller size? Like they don't feel deep enough for most men.

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi Месяц назад

    Thanks you for sharing have liked and comment on your Romanian video as well to support it. Sorry for the negative impact this event will happen to sex education.😓

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi Месяц назад

    🙏

  • @sosnow6194
    @sosnow6194 Месяц назад

    Also if the woman had too much drink, consent is not valid. It’s possible to be to drunk to consent so leave the woman alone !!

  • @trillmuzik225
    @trillmuzik225 Месяц назад

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi Месяц назад

    Once again the need for shadow work for each individual is needed.

  • @jasonsandifer3250
    @jasonsandifer3250 Месяц назад

    These stories of sexual assault are very disturbing, This was absolutely terrible and Very difficult to watch, disturbing to listen to and view. Rape rape barbaric Rape is Vile Rape is terrible Rape is animalistic Rape is sickening Rape is hateful Rape is shameful Rape is ruthless Rape is wicked Rape is evil (WOMENS LIVES MATTER) Men DONT hurt any Woman, Never beat up your Woman, Never beat up your wife, girlfriend, or any woman, don’t hurt your children,that’s NOT is what being a man is. Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man tough... Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man strong... Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man cool... Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man a man.... Beating a woman is Not masculine Beating Women is NOT sexy Beating Women is NOT manly Using abuse, and force for sexual gratification, intimidation, by harmful behavior for sexual intimacy with someone doesn’t make a man, strong, tough, cool, or, manly. I believe in the Safety and Well-being Women, Children, and Men WOMEN Have the RIGHT to FEEL SAFE and BE SAFE This is a reply post regarding a article on Assault Against Woman: For what is statistically true, or accurate, and even what is not included statistically, and all other crime such as this is what is ( violence against women) Always unacceptable... Women have the Right to Feel SAFE and be Safe... No woman..., or person....child...should ever have to experience this kind heinous personal intrusion in their lifetime, this seems to be occurring at least according to news reports more, and all to often. Actually this activity should be in a stage, or state of Reversal, and NOT Increasing, I am continually upset as well as greatly disturbed in hearing such stories, as I have always have been... My Heart Always... goes out to any person which have experienced any such similar experience of intrusion, attacks, and, or invasion of their personal well-being... due violence, and or violent behavior, I will continue Praying for the Safety and Well-Being of Others... Keep everyone SAFE PLEASE BE SAFE Your Life is important Advocate of Humanity, Author, Writer, Poet, Safety Advocate Jason Sandifer, Michigan MESSAGE REPOSTED 01/08/2021, 4/26/2022, 5/03/2022

  • @jasonsandifer3250
    @jasonsandifer3250 Месяц назад

    The desire for Sex should Not control someone or anyone to the point of harming someone, violently, and, or causing unnecessary suffering through attacks, forced sexual situations, forced abuse, torture, kidnapping, sexual assault, coercion, causing mental harm, causing physical, or emotional harm. Sex should not cause someone’s death or harm. Author Advocate for Humanity, Jason Sandifer, 4/26/2022, 5/09/2022, 11/28/2022 6/16/2022, 11/30/2022 7/15/2023

  • @ilmarsmarsils8029
    @ilmarsmarsils8029 Месяц назад

    I've divorced from my wife recently. And one of my faults was I was too sex inactive. I said her, that she did not want sex with me when I initiated (after child birth) I had only sex when she initiated. I asked what should I have been doing if you do not want sex. She said that I should have taken her with force(rape). I did not initiate sex because I did not wanted be refused almost every time. And last point of our relationship was when I refused just once sex after her invitation. So some women sometimes want to be raped. So guys cannot know when it is allowed and welcomed and when really not.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      I read your comment. And I honestly want to say this: soemtimes I don't get women either. (Not into them, just as friends... Man, I don't get them! They sometimes don't say what they want, or how they want things done... the lack of straightforwardness in most women kills me. As a woman, I do say this.) I am sorry you had this situation. 😞

  • @Rubicon1
    @Rubicon1 Месяц назад

    She whispered NO and never pushed or yelled and its rape? Her mother was right. Silly.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      You have a very ignorant way to look at this situation: ignore a drunk man, downplay a said no for a whisper and pass the fear / freezing of one's body with consent. But be aware that most men and women in our society see this guy's actions for what they are. He is right now shunned in our society.

  • @winstonwilson9172
    @winstonwilson9172 Месяц назад

    Well I'm a heterosexual man and I have Never in my life ever hit on a woman for sex but I will have to say I have had quite a few women during my life time to hit on Me, for sex and I have turned them down because I don't have and never have had a desire to have a random sexual encounter with strange women

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      Super! Honestly! ✌🏻💯

  • @JoeBrown-bt4qg
    @JoeBrown-bt4qg Месяц назад

    The way for a woman to avoid date rape is to never accept free dinner, drinks, or any other gift from a man on the first date. Parents tell children to not accept candy from strangers. Same principle. Because with gifts come obligations. From a man's perspective, there is nothing worse than buying dinner for a woman and acting a charming gentleman for 2 hours only to get nothing but ghosted.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea Месяц назад

      Yes ! This wasn't in this case here (video), but I agree with you completely. Gifts aren't actually gifts in between strangers. They are leverage. Especially in dating strangers. 💯

  • @thepragmatist
    @thepragmatist 2 месяца назад

    I'm sorry you had the experience you did in 2014. Unfortunately, some people are in denial or just don't care. The lack of empathy is real.

  • @thepragmatist
    @thepragmatist 2 месяца назад

    I haven't watched the whole video...I'm not condoning this guy's behavior but, as women, we need to take precautions. If we don't want to be placed in this position, don't drink alcohol with the guy and don't invite him back to your dorm/apartment and don't go to his place. Go home alone. For men, the urge to have sex is really strong and their inhibition is diminished with alcohol. Plus, this guy may have felt entitled since they had sex before. Once men get the green light, it's hard to turn it to red. Once again, I am not excusing his behavior. R$pe is r$pe.

  • @LianaBuzea
    @LianaBuzea 2 месяца назад

    To give you the context: I filmed this vlog after receiving the news of someone passing away. His wife, kids, mom, friends, the city he lived in (he was quite a community raiser) and collaborators are all in mourning now. This is what got me to bring out this topic. I did have it in me for a while, but this was the catalyst.

  • @emsea7279
    @emsea7279 2 месяца назад

    Hello beautiful

  • @user-og2wt3le4j
    @user-og2wt3le4j 2 месяца назад

    This would not solve the problem altogether, but remove alcohol out of the equation. Over 50% of sexual assaults involve alcohol intoxication on the part of the offender and/or victim. Another factor is the age of offenders. The male brain is wired like a teenager until the age of 25. Men cannot read the body language of females and other cues that would suggest they do not want sex. It is then no surprise that many sexual assault offenders fall under age 25, especially on university campuses. This is not an excuse, but a scientific fact that needs to be recognized if looking for solutions. Another factor is couples do not know how to convey consent. This goes for both men and women. Legal consent is not really discussed adequately in sex education classes, and people fail to communicate about these issues even if they are a couple.

  • @jeanpaulkassdale
    @jeanpaulkassdale 2 месяца назад

    What about the fact that some women say "no" just because they like a guy to chase them ? How are men supposed to understand that and how are they supposed to make the difference with "no means no" ?

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea 2 месяца назад

      No means no in sex. Dating, and the games some people play in dating, are a different thing. But with actual sex, no means no. Always. Unless someone wants to mess up their whole life.

    • @jeanpaulkassdale
      @jeanpaulkassdale 2 месяца назад

      @@LianaBuzea At what point does one consider that the sex start ? And is it the same for everyone ?

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea 2 месяца назад

      @@jeanpaulkassdale in this video's case, at the point he got on top of her. This was the statement she gave to the press. In any other cases, when someone (man or woman) says "I don't want to!" or "No!", whenever he / she says it, that's the moment nothing should continue. How do you see this?

    • @jeanpaulkassdale
      @jeanpaulkassdale 2 месяца назад

      @@LianaBuzea Personnally, now I try and find a way to ask the question if we're going to escalate this or not. But when it comes to alcohol, I myself happened to have experienced a situation where a girl said no to me and I kept insisting for more : we were already being physical in the bed, but she did not want to take things farther, and I kept insisting. It was hard for me to understand because : 1) I was horny as f*** 2) We were drunk 3) We were already touching each other a lot and she seemed to enjoy it 4) Her refusal was still formulated in a playful manner (as we had been all night and I assume she did not want to be mean) and she said she'd like to do it on another occasion. I did not understand why but probably because she was a virgin and did not want to do it drunk with someone else drunk. We stopped there and my balls started hurting a lot as I did not masturbate. I was mad at her for the extremely frustrating situation and I never wanted to talk again, even though she tried to say hi a few times and seemed to like me. I regret this because she was a good girl and ultimately I still liked her and respected her. But this whole situation generated a lot of frustration of my part and I handled it poorly. So I don't know, I guess alcohol is the biggest problem is this kind of situation...

    • @_Hal9000
      @_Hal9000 2 месяца назад

      As 35 old dude, if a woman i date says no, to have a relationship, i start to ignore her. Do not simp.

  • @bjornen75
    @bjornen75 2 месяца назад

    It actuly hapens me as a man, now and then. The woman dont want to have condom and starts ro ride me, thou i said no it have hapend two times. And also females at bars that have put their hands in my pants to tuch my dick, withoute premition. But aso my aunt did weird stuff when i was 10 years old, looking for red dots in my ass. But men are not complaining.

  • @tan240sx
    @tan240sx 2 месяца назад

    Late at night is when my shadows come out too. It's as though when I let my guard down they take the opportunity to speak up. It's good though because they're actually always there and now I get to hear more clearly how they influence me. Thanks for making this video.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea 2 месяца назад

      I'm super glad if it helps in any way. ✌🏻✨

  • @paulpopescu2757
    @paulpopescu2757 2 месяца назад

    17:45 "How you react in other parts of your life" True! I am not a specialist, but I have my theory about the fact that the guy who did this was a little bit overweight, and my guess is that it's the same way for example when smaller people buy bigger cars. My theory, or rather my guess, also, is that people exposed to this, like Adina, might develop an above average need for hygiene, and I guess that's what happened to her. Just a guess.. And sometimes people exposed to this like Adina, feel the need to travel to another country, like running or escaping from a bad memory.. It might be a symptom..

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea 2 месяца назад

      Well, I don't venture in the realm of how a sexual abuse affects someone. Cause we're different and that stuff is best taken to therapy and slowly worked through. 🙏🏻✌🏻

    • @TheCraigy83
      @TheCraigy83 2 месяца назад

      @@LianaBuzea Youve spent 99.9% our existence not having any say whatsoever in anything and we didnt evolve to have to wine and dine ourselves outta pocket to acquire or keep you and there was absolutely no leaving us for our friend across the street , you'd get clubbed......cross reference all that with everything you think you know about us....most of us have god level self control..

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea 2 месяца назад

      Mm-hm. By the way you wrote this comment you seem to have 'very much self-control'. ✌🏻

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi 2 месяца назад

    Lots to un pack in this. Need to support real healers for sure. I have one positive story is that one man admitted that before his time in the American army he was a raisit and his time there changed him.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea 2 месяца назад

      Great for that man, whoever he was. In this case, I haven't heard of there being anything useful here. Not sure if you listened to the podcast, but she went through repetitive abuse and ended up in an abusive relationship and later was punished for not wanting to marry her abuser. One of them...

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi 2 месяца назад

    Ya, not the easy to take things so tragic.

  • @GokulGokuldas-tj1wx
    @GokulGokuldas-tj1wx 2 месяца назад

    Thanks 😊❤

  • @GokulGokuldas-tj1wx
    @GokulGokuldas-tj1wx 2 месяца назад

    Yes im orgasmic 🧘👁️

  • @user-xl2lj4ui1q
    @user-xl2lj4ui1q 2 месяца назад

    Arousing

  • @user-xl2lj4ui1q
    @user-xl2lj4ui1q 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi 2 месяца назад

    Well I figure all the things that contribute to health contribute to aur ability to be intimate.

  • @Davlavi
    @Davlavi 2 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing. Breath work is a great set of exercise.

    • @LianaBuzea
      @LianaBuzea 2 месяца назад

      Happy if this helps! 🙏🏻